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As far as team sports go, the only way to earn the respect of the team is to give all you got to the team.
Show up to every practice, every meet, remain positive no matter the outcome.
And forget the girl. Highschool girls are for the most part complete bitches. She could not like you for that simple fact, she could have brushed you off cause she's interested in the other guy she invited to run, and didn't want you around.
There could be infinite reasons for her saying no to you, none of them acceptable enough to be a bitch about it though. So just forget her and do your own thing.
But if you want respect out of the team, you have to give it your all and then some (ie: practice on your own time and shit and invite others to join you once you got some sort of routine down on that).
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